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Sex After Sixty


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Summary & Participants

In many people's eyes, advanced age and sexual intimacy go together like milk and orange juice. But sexuality can be an important part of any loving relationship, no matter how old you are. Join our panel of experts as they discuss popular misconceptions about elder sexuality, as well as why -- and how -- they should change.

Medically Reviewed On: July 06, 2008

Webcast Transcript


MARK POCHAPIN, MD: Hi, welcome to our webcast. I'm Dr. Mark Pochapin, and we're going to discuss some of the issues that people have when they get older. But we're not talking about arthritis or chronic lung disease. We're talking about having sex, that is, sex in the elderly. It's really something that doesn't get much attention, but needs to be addressed, because there are new drugs now that are available, and there are things both physiologic and psychosocial, that need to be addressed with people as they get older and start engaging again in sex.

Today I have with us some expert panelists. Sitting to my left is Dr. David Kaufman. He's an assistant professor of clinical urology at Columbia University. Welcome, David. Sitting next to David is Dr. Patricia Bloom. She's Chief of Geriatric Medicine at St. Luke's/Roosevelt Hospital in New York City, with us here today. Thank you, Pat. Sitting next to Pat is Dr. Dagmar O'Connor, who is a psychologist, a sex therapist, and the first woman sex therapist to be trained by Masters and Johnson in New York City. Welcome. Appreciate you all with us.

Viagra has really revolutionized this discussion about sex in the elderly. It's obviously a couple-related thing, as sex is a couple-related thing. What has happened, in terms of discussing this, or just the psychosocial aspects of sex in the elderly, that has maintained the ability to not only develop a new drug, but also develop things like this webcast to discuss this issue? Pat, you want to address that? How do we now, as a society, sort of embrace sex in the elderly, and get rid of the taboo that has generally been there about Grandma and Grandpa having sex?

PATRICIA BLOOM, MD: There's a lot of different aspects to that question. First of all, the aspect of what do elderly people themselves think about sex. I think it's true that we are going through a revolution, partly due to Viagra. But a lot of elderly people grew up with thinking that sex was something that was secret. You didn't talk about it. If you're interested in sex when you're an older man, you're a dirty old man. So just having brought it more out into the open, I think, has been helpful.

We still live in a society -- I can tell you that when I mention sex in the elderly, my teenage son goes "Ewww!" It's like there's still this whole thought that that's not something that's okay for elderly people to do. People get nervous thinking about it. So there's a real kind of dichotomy there.

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